Response to sibling domestic abuse

The following post is a response to a facebook post. This post is too long for a post on Facebook.  The original post is here. 

Hey everyone many of you know by know that my brother has been committing civil harassment me for decades, and I have done a combination of running, fighting, and involving the police or courts. Someone of you know that I an trying to start a program because my mother's claims of my brother's insane jealousy no longer fit that pattern. He is engaging in sibling domestic violence. His goal is to denigrate me. That is the focused goal of sibling domestic violence: to denigrate the other sibling. The shared post is an example of an accusatory statement from my brother. I can no longer do nothing. Something was done, with his involvement that caused so much psychological harm, I have new meds to add to my old one. I am 50 with new meds. Hurray. With me luck in this everyone
Below I will answer the ones that have content. All statements that are logical fallacies will be deleted in my response.

So strange that he used to decry me to others as a devil worshipper, and yet there he is on YouTube, burning a bible and trying to sound all tough & sinister.

John-This is all true. I was a Jehovah's Witness at
one time and did think his Wicca was Satanic. What
he does not tell you is I left that religion and did
practice solitary and group Wicca for a while. Not my
style either

I still recall... [ad hominem fallacy] anonymous pieces of mail calling himself "The Iron Monkey,"
John-The fact is we were kids, and it was a prank
written to Andy Frizzle because he was experimenting
with the martial art of Ninjusu). Your response is what not
what you claim

I recall that back when I was in 1st grade and he was in the 2nd how he'd go out of his way to pick on me because I was so much smaller than the other kids my age...[ad hominem fallacy]
(I know we got into fights, but I don't remember what
you are talking about. I do remember you in up in the
same class with me for 2nd and 3rd graders. I
remember you and another student being so unruly
you made that you made our new teacher Miss Moore cry)